Friday, September 19, 2008

Sep/ Chapter 5: By request

The following were sent to me by girls that wanted this posted on the blog:

First piece:

Top ten reasons why ladies today are still single!!:

1. The nice men are ugly.
2. The handsome men are not nice.
3. The handsome, and nice men are gay.
4. The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.
5. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have no money.
6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with money think women are only after their money.
7. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don't think women are beautiful enough.
9. The men who think women are beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.
10. The men who are somewhat handsome, somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy nd NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!
11. The men who never make the first move, automatically lose interest in women when they take the initiative.

*** May I just add, I think women are single because they are too picky!

Second piece:

One of my friends recently had a fling with this guy, the guy was staying at a hotel and traveled a lot for business. One morning he told her he was leaving for work for a week and will be back a week later. Of course the guy doesn't call, and would only answer coldly to my friends messages. So my friend gave up.

Last weekend, my friend was at a party and saw him. He was talking to some people so she didn't feel like going over to chat. He finally left with some girl, and my friend asked her friend who the fat chick was that left with her guy. The friend said "She's not fat, she's pregnant. That's his wife and they've been married for ages, she moved over to Hong Kong 3 weeks ago"


Anonymous said...

I might have missed this in a previous post but what's your take on guys - or girls- and baggage? I've met this awesome guy, which is an accomplishment in itself, and think we could have something pretty cool but he has a whole heap of emotional (no kids) baggage from a very very bad break up a few years ago. I don't know if he's ready to move forward even though he says he is. Thoughts Carlton?

Anonymous said...

3. The handsome, and nice men are gay.

haha~i love that! it's real! (Jo)

Carlton Bradshaw said...

Emotional baggage if the hardest to deal with, because it's not something you can really control. Even with physical injury you can rehabilitate but there will still be scars.

The most important thing for yourself is whether his emotional baggage affects your relationship adversely. If the guy is awesome as you say and his baggage is just a minor inconvenience, then it's no big deal.

If however, his baggage is going to be a barrier to you two connecting properly no matter how hard you try, then you need to reconsider if such a relationship is something you want.

Anonymous said...

sometimes a broken heart man needs a strong woman to wipe off the tears off his scars. i have 2 such strong women as my frens

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