tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post9149643044848801198..comments2023-06-10T22:39:52.529+08:00Comments on Relationships in Hong Kong: June/ Chapter 2: Women and their nice guys....Carlton Bradshawhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03166348240354680954noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-64816464548873732582008-07-02T23:13:00.000+08:002008-07-02T23:13:00.000+08:00By nice, I mean a guy that actually likes the girl...By nice, I mean a guy that actually likes the girl and would like to go after her with real feelings. Even if he was smart and successful, he wouldn't come off as confident and funny, but as desperate. <BR/><BR/>On the other hand a guy that doesn't care comes off as confident and irresistable because they don't care, so has nothing to lose and therefore confident. <BR/><BR/>It's not as simple as it seems. At the end of the day, guys that would just settle for one girl even if smart, successful, confident and funny, would have a lower success rate if he approached multiple girls than a guy that just doesn't care.Carlton Bradshawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03166348240354680954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-48764466376897249132008-07-02T10:07:00.000+08:002008-07-02T10:07:00.000+08:00People often think "nice guys" are the opposite of...People often think "nice guys" are the opposite of guys who sleep around, that's because the word "nice" is the antonym to everything bad.<BR/><BR/>When a woman comments on a guy with the word "nice", that means she's not interested at all, coz "nice" isn't a statement, which means she couldn't find anything worth remembering in this guy.<BR/><BR/>What women look for is the "eligible" ones, who are the smart, successful, confident and funny men minus the cheating/sleeping around characteristics. Well, nothing's perfect in this world, so these "eligible" guys tend to be fat, bold and ugly, which makes the choice between the "eligible ones" and the "players/cheaters" very hard.<BR/><BR/>... ...<BR/><BR/>I shall not move on reading anymore today, coz as I read, I found myself justifying for my ex's behaviours which makes me question myself whether he deserves another (the 101st) chance? Not good...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com