tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post5171552550929646402..comments2023-06-10T22:39:52.529+08:00Comments on Relationships in Hong Kong: June/ Chapter 13: How to spot a playerCarlton Bradshawhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03166348240354680954noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-4222992493929321222008-06-10T11:17:00.000+08:002008-06-10T11:17:00.000+08:00Dear MsMaoMao, I'll go through all your questions ...Dear MsMaoMao, I'll go through all your questions one by one. Don't just use one indicator as definite proof the guy is a player. A guy might actually like you but won't introduce you to friends till you start dating for a while. <BR/><BR/>Asking a guy if he likes you or not is a bit direct. But it's an example of a question that can provoke a reaction. Might not be the best question but depends on the situation. Spotting a lie might not be easy, especially if the person is good at it, so you need lots of clues. <BR/><BR/>Not sure you can tell anything from kisses. I'm sure there are plenty of guys in love that kiss badly and players that kiss really well. <BR/><BR/>Lots of married men cheat in Asia. I would say over 50%, and yeah a guy can cheat even if he's in love with a girl. I'll write a post about this later. <BR/><BR/>With regard to hitting on girls in a club. It really depends on the guy, the girl and the situation. Even players will categories girls into friends, girls they want a relationship with and just flings.Carlton Bradshawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03166348240354680954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-10024342509963992962008-06-10T11:00:00.000+08:002008-06-10T11:00:00.000+08:00oh goshhh .. another question jus popped up in my ...oh goshhh .. another question jus popped up in my mind ... =p i hope u don't mind me asking too much but HEY this is what your blog is for <BR/><BR/>ok ... so often when guys pick up a girl in a club. What's undergoing in their mind? Obviously there are qualities within a girl that made u guys interested to approach her. What i wanna ask is ... by getting know of that girl, what is the REAL intention?<BR/><BR/>1) Really, just wanna get to know the girl more cuz you find her interesting<BR/><BR/>OR<BR/><BR/>2) SEX!! just wanna bring her home and sleep with her?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-28493220443708016862008-06-10T10:53:00.000+08:002008-06-10T10:53:00.000+08:00ahh one more question =pso based on your theories/...ahh one more question =p<BR/><BR/>so based on your theories/experiences... Guys desire to have sex with lots of diff. women out there. So what about the married ones? Still the same or would it make a difference?<BR/><BR/>It's just like even a guy is so in love with their girlfriend, doesn't meant they don't fu*k around too. Am i right?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-30105107245058684792008-06-10T10:44:00.000+08:002008-06-10T10:44:00.000+08:00I think the very last statement is very true. If a...I think the very last statement is very true. If a person really likes you, he should be quite happy to introduce u to his friends. But hmm on the other hand, some people like ME, for some reason, i don't always introduce the guy whom i like to my friends, not until we're very solid and stable. So in that case, what if the guy is thinking of the same way, how can you clarify?<BR/><BR/>Another question (woo i think i am a true fans of ur blog lol, making a lotta comments/questions =p)<BR/><BR/>Ask the guy if he likes u or not?!?! of when u should question should be asked? <BR/>you talked about body guestures, eye contacts etc. What about kisses? Is there any ways you can tell through kisses?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com