tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post2449801566740617018..comments2023-06-10T22:39:52.529+08:00Comments on Relationships in Hong Kong: June/ Chapter 24: James BondCarlton Bradshawhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03166348240354680954noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-30007222350427220392008-06-25T15:13:00.000+08:002008-06-25T15:13:00.000+08:00"pure and idealistic people that really shouldn't ..."pure and idealistic people that really shouldn't be involved in such "conflict". " - i totally feel that<BR/>its one's choices to get involve with such "conflict" even they can already predict the outcome of how's it gonna be.<BR/><BR/>and yes i agree ppl who party hard can be NICE ppl (like ME, lol) but i admit one of the reason i go party hard atm, its because i wanna explore and have as much fun as i can, maybe i might be feeling a lil lonely but really, i know i am not settled down atm. That's one good thing of being single, u can go & do whatever, wherever and whenever u want ;)<BR/><BR/>its funny of how the players fell in love and got heart broken. i laughed* (esp. when i hear 'em cry) LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-62320386075961836462008-06-25T10:12:00.000+08:002008-06-25T10:12:00.000+08:00Let me expand a little more. The Idiom "All is fai...Let me expand a little more. <BR/><BR/>The Idiom "All is fair in love and war" is used to say that when there is conflict, people can be expected to behave in a more vicious way. <BR/><BR/>However even in a war zone, we differentiate between the killing of military personnel, civilians, the old and sick, and kids. <BR/><BR/>When it comes to relationships, a player or someone that has in the past had no consideration for other people's feelings, hardly deserves any pity when they one day fall in love and are heart broken. <BR/><BR/>On the other side of the scale there are the really pure and idealistic people that really shouldn't be involved in such "conflict". Those are the nice people I am talking about.Carlton Bradshawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03166348240354680954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-923036921879260432008-06-25T07:54:00.000+08:002008-06-25T07:54:00.000+08:00Hi old party person, in the context of this partic...Hi old party person, in the context of this particular James Bond topic. I was refering to the nice girls and guys that have a totally different value system to sex and marriage compared to someone that parties a lot. <BR/><BR/>Of course there are NICE people that go out and party. Most my friends are party people, and I'm a party person! Being a party person also doesn't mean sleeping around. But at least we are aware of what the scene is like. <BR/><BR/>When a player goes and screws someone over who's relatively ignorant to what the scene is like, or has a much more innocent and idealistic perspective on relationships, they are guilty of a much bigger moral crime.Carlton Bradshawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03166348240354680954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-19522642434682557482008-06-25T00:04:00.000+08:002008-06-25T00:04:00.000+08:00I kinda disagree with your differentiation between...I kinda disagree with your differentiation between these party people and wholesome people. There are plently of NICE people who are party people. It's like saying it's ok to eat fish coz they don't have any feelings...<BR/><BR/>Although I party less now coz i'm older, it doesn't mean that when i was party shit hard like wed to sun every weekend that i was any nicer or less nice a person.<BR/><BR/>...oh, i've just realised, by party people, do you mean people that sleep around?? I partied a lot, but never slept around, or even got off with loads of people..but i was definately a party person....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-41671820900908946792008-06-24T11:39:00.000+08:002008-06-24T11:39:00.000+08:00I think we all know what nice girls and guys are l...I think we all know what nice girls and guys are la. The wholesome type our parents would like us to marry. <BR/><BR/>Which is different from most people in the party scene unfortunately. Also, girls just aren't as attracted to the nice guys as I've posted already.Carlton Bradshawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03166348240354680954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5161162296979557423.post-50921075514616114942008-06-24T10:57:00.000+08:002008-06-24T10:57:00.000+08:00what is considered as REAL NICE girls and guys the...what is considered as REAL NICE girls and guys then?<BR/><BR/>i agree .. we often fall for players and we KNEW IT !! so its really our choice to stick up with him and shouldn't blame too much afterwards .. UNLESS he was a great liar then that's a different story .. some guys will even PRETEND they are settling down with a girl with *ahem* commitments which they don't mean .. those are the worst !!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com